Monthly Archives: November 2011

Choosing a Retirement Location

Choosing a Retirement LocationThis is one of our biggest issues, choosing a retirement location. Were do we retire to? Should we stay were we are or move somewhere where it is warm. What about earthquakes , tornadoes, fire and hurricanes?  There always seems to be a negative with places that are warm. There is the entire family issue. We do not want to be far away from the grand kids, while at the same time we need to live our lives too and enjoy the few years we have left. This is the dilemma we are facing along with many Americans and Canadians in choosing a retirement location.

Depending on what your priorities are, some locations will be better than others. Here is a list that we are currently struggling with. They are not in any order of priority since each person or family will rank these items with their own set of priorities. They will be different for everyone. You may want to assign you own priority to each item on the list.

Choosing a Retirement Location – Criteria

Here is our list that we are using to make a decision about choosing a retirement location:

  • Climate, warm weather.
  • Health care
  • Emergency health care
  • Personal safety
  • Proximity to the grand kids
  • Proximity to friends
  • Interesting things to do
  • 2nd Careers for some people
  • Volunteer organizations that you belong to
  • Financially affordable
  • Living costs
  • Sentimental ties to home and area you live in
  • Tax issues
  • Travel costs to return home to visit the family
  • Length if time you can stay in a foreign country

These are just a few of the things we are thinking about. In fact it is too many and the net result is that we will be paralyzed by too much indecision. We do like our home and neighborhood, however the winters are not fun and we enjoy the sunshine and warm temperatures of the south. We do not want to be around hurricanes, tornadoes and earth quakes or fires.  Millions of people deal with this every day, however when you come from an area were the main issue is cold winters, this seems minor compared to a hurricane.

Move to Another Country

One option is to go to another country. Health costs are a big issue as are landed immigrant status and tax issues. If you plan to move to another country, you must take into account these issues and have a well defined plan, particularly for health coverage. Changing countries these days is very complex and this alone will scare many people away from say moving from Canada to the US or Mexico.

Safety is another major issue for many people. The area you may be moving into must be safe for you and your family. While no place these days is truly safe, some are much better than others. Many people are opting for gated communities, however in my opinion this is an illusion. It keeps the rift raft out and tourists, but if a criminal really wants to get in, he or she will with no problems what so ever. It does stop the opportunists.

Quality of Life

It really comes down to quality of life, which for us means that family and friends are really important. This seems to be the highest priority for us, which means we will stay right were we are and enjoy our family and friends. Of course we will take longer trips and travel quite a bit, but our home base will be right were we are today other than perhaps down sizing to a smaller home.

For the time being we are going to stay right where we are and not move. We will rent condo’s in various locations to see if any of these locations would be interesting to us as a retirement  place to live. We can get to know the city, the people and whether we can be away from the kids that long. This is a compromise or perhaps a cop out as some people might put it, but this is what is working for us at the moment.

We would appreciate your ideas and thoughts about this subject of choosing a retirement location.

 

 

Transitioning into Retirement

Transitioning into RetirementMost people don’t want to retire to a life of just hitting a tiny white ball around a well-manicured lawn. They actually want to do something after they retire from their primary career. Trouble is, most people these days do not have a clue how to go about it. They have no idea what steps to take to figure out what to do next in their lives or transitioning into retirement. I just had a conversation this morning about this very subject with a good friend of mine.

He thinks that over the next five years he will either receive a buy-out or he will continue to work for at least five years more. The problem is that he is all consumed by work and has no idea of what he will do during retirement. Fortunately for my friend money is not an issue for him, however, he is thinking about taking steps to transition into retirement from a financial perspective, however in his case he is missing the main issue.  Financially he has decided that he and his wife are going to live on what he expects his retirement income to be. This is a good plan, however, the real issue is what is he going to do with his time!

Steps to Transitioning into Retirement

According to the experts, there are 5 stages that people go through when they are approaching retirement. Some go through these stages quite quickly, especially when they are laid off or receive a bonus package to leave. Others have time to plan and get ready for retirement both mentally and financially. Here are the five steps.

  • Acknowledging the need to transition
  • Discovering your potential
  • Discover your options.
  • Discovering your goals
  • Transforming “what’s next into what’s now

Each stage is linked to a specific purpose, as well as tasks, outcomes, and questions as you get comfortable with the idea of retirement or transitioning to something different in your life.

Acknowledging the need to transition

For some people, it is forced on them through a premature lay off or forced retirement. In this case, there may be also an angry phase that you must get through. For others, it is simply recognizing that it is time to begin planning your transition to the next phase. There is also disconnection from present employers and employees as you begin to separate in your mind from what you are currently doing to the next phase. It is time to figure out what comes next.

Sometimes there is tension, ambiguity, apprehension, and confusion that is associated with this stage as you try to figure out what it is you would like to do with the rest of your life.

Discovering your potential

Discovering your potential is all about figuring out what your strengths are and what the possibilities might be for your next career or stage in life. It is very personal and different for everyone.  Explore what you enjoy, explore what you need to do to be satisfied, explore what you want your relationship with your family should be, including spouse, sons and daughters, and grandchildren. You may also want to evaluate your resources in terms of finances, but also in terms of pf physical health and demands by other family members.

Discovering your options

This stage focuses more on testing some of your ideas and options. If you thought you always wanted to golf every day then try it out and see how that goes. If you thought you always wanted to travel do that. The important thing is to try out or test what you feel is the right option for you and try lots of things until you find something that really works for you. Find out what fits and what works for you over a period of time. Remember this is a transition over time and not a flash change in your lifestyle.

Discovering your goals

Once you have an idea of what it is you want to do, it is time to set goals and objectives to help you meet your plans. What resources are you going to need? What are the next steps and who do you need to talk to for assistance in order to complete your goals.

Transitioning into Retirement – Transform what’ next into what’s now

This is the implementation and engagement phase. This is where you actually make it happen. Along the way, you may fine-tune your activities, your goals, etc, Which is fine and you learn more about yourself and your new life. But the main focus of this stage is really turning all of your plans into reality.

Knowing that you are in one phase or another can be helpful. Or that you are cycling between phases as you figure out what you are going to do is actually helpful to many people. While there is a lot of ambiguity and confusion, at least you know that this is normal.

My friend has barely started this exercise. He is in phase one. Because he has begun to recognize that he needs to make the transition and begin planning. This is a good first step. However, he has a long way to go yet. If he suddenly finds that he is downsized, he may not be ready. He will struggle somewhat for a while as he is forced to speed up his planning.

Your comments are welcome, any advice you can provide to my friend about this subject and retirement, in general, is much appreciated.